Letting Go of What No Longer Serves You: 

Do you ever feel stuck? Like something inside you is holding you back, even when you want to move forward? That something might be limiting beliefs — thoughts, patterns, inherited expectations that no longer serve you. Releasing those beliefs can open up real transformation in your life.

What Are Limiting Beliefs & Where Do They Come From

Limiting beliefs are negative stories or assumptions we hold about ourselves: “I’m not good enough”, “I don’t deserve success”, “Change is too hard”. They feel real, but often they’re built from:

• Upbringing and parents: Messages from childhood (“You mustn’t…”, “That’s not for people like us…”) become internalised.

• Generational patterns: Beliefs passed down (e.g. about work ethic, fear of failure, what success looks like) from grandparents to parents to you.

• Cultural and community expectations: In small towns or rural Scotland (including Perthshire), traditions and expectations — perhaps “stick with what we know”, “don’t aim too high”, “be modest” — can be both grounding and limiting.

• Past experiences & trauma: Events when your effort was discouraged, when failure hurt, or when you were judged. These experiences feed the belief system.

Why Releasing Limiting Beliefs Matters

Letting go of beliefs that no longer serve you is more than just “feeling lighter.” Here are some big reasons why the work is worth it:

1. More emotional freedom and happiness
   When you stop carrying old beliefs, anxiety, fear, self-doubt tend to fade. You can feel more at ease, more joyful.

2. Greater potential for growth & success
   Without internal blocks, you may try things you never believed you could. New possibilities, new paths open up.

3. Better relationships, including with your children
   If you hold limiting beliefs, there’s a strong chance you’ll transmit them to your kids. Releasing them means breaking cycles — giving your children a chance to grow unburdened.

4. Living authentically & aligned with your purpose
   When you release what isn’t you, what’s left is your true vision, values, and what you really want to create. That’s powerful.

5. Improved mental & physical wellbeing
   Self-limiting beliefs contribute to chronic stress, low mood, perhaps depression. Letting go reduces those pressures.

How to Start Releasing: Steps & Tools

Here are steps and tools that help:

Step 1: Awareness & Identification

• Notice recurring negative self-talk.

• Pay attention to times you’re holding back: fear of judgement, fear of failure.

• Journal: write down beliefs as they come, track where they might have come from (parents, teachers, culture).

Step 2: Question & Challenge Them

• Ask: Is this belief truly mine? Is it fact or story?

• Collect evidence against it: things you have done that contradict it.

Step 3: Reframe & Replace

• Change “I’m not good enough” → “I am always learning and growing.”

• Use affirmations, visualisation.

Step 4: Embodied Practices

• Movement, nature, somatic work.

• Breath-work: breathing practices are especially useful to release emotional energy stuck in the body.

Breath-Work: Why It’s Powerful & What We’re Seeing

Breath-work isn’t just “take a deep breath” — when practised intentionally, it has big effects. Research shows:

• It lowers stress, anxiety, depression in controlled trials. Nature+2

• Even short sessions (5-10 minutes) of breath regulation improve mood and physiological markers like heart rate variability (HRV). PMC+1

• Deep, deliberate breathing calms the nervous system, helping release stored trauma or beliefs locked into body and mind.

One practice that some people do is a 90-minute breath-work session. In that time, with guided breathing (often continuous or with few pauses), emotional material often comes to the surface, can be processed, released. Many report feeling lighter, clearer, more empowered after such sessions.

What Releasing Looks & Feels Like in Perthshire

Living in or near Perthshire gives unique opportunities:

• Nature as healer: hills, lochs, woods give quiet, space for breath-work or reflection.

• Community: tight-knit rural or semi-rural communities can both enforce limiting beliefs and support deep change. Sharing openly helps.

• Cultural heritage: being Scottish, there can be strong ideas around “stoicism”, “don’t complain”, “get on with it” — useful traits, but sometimes trapping. Releasing limiting beliefs in that context might mean allowing vulnerability, saying “this hurts”, or “I need help”.

Practical Tips & Local Case Study

Here are practical tips, using a (fictional but realistic) case study from Perthshire:

Case Study: Isla from Aberfeldy

• Isla grew up hearing “we don’t aim too high”, “you’ll never leave this place” from well-meaning parents. She believed she couldn’t be successful outside local towns.

• She began noticing her thought patterns: felt smaller in meetings, avoided applying for promotion.

• She joined a breath-work workshop in Perthshire (90 minutes), combining guided breathing, journaling, reflection. Over time, she replaced “I can’t” with “I choose to try”. She now works in a role she once thought impossible and mentors others locally.

Tips you might try (in or near Perthshire):

• Book a 90-minute breath-work workshop (in a venue with nature views if possible).

• Use morning or evening walks by a loch, forest or hill and incorporate simple breath exercises.

• Find groups locally (mindfulness, breath-work, shamanic circles) to share and release together.

• Keep a journal of limiting beliefs, track when they arise, challenge them.